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1. Ketahanan bergurau senda, adat bergurau terlebih usik. Pastikan kita & sahabat saling boleh menerima gurauan oleh itu berfikir dahulu sebelum ianya berlaku.
2. Jgn terlalu celupar atau mengkritik, kita sendiri tidak semestinya bagus dan betul.
3. Jgn terlalu mengambil tahu hal peribadi org terdekat dgn sahabat spt tunang, isteri/suaminya atau kaum keluarganya.
4. Perkara sensitif spt gaji, kenaikan pangkat & hutangnya usah ditanya.
5. Pandai menyimpan rahsia terutama hal peribadi spt rumahtangga atau hubungan suami isteri sahabat.
6. Terima kekurangan & keburukan sahabat seadanya.Cuba lihat nilai positifnya dan lihat diri sendiri, diri kita tidak tentunya baik.
7. Bijak menyesuaikan tutur kata dgn emosi sahabat. Jangan cakap mengikut sedap mulut tanpa memikir kesannya kepada sahabat.
8. Berita baik atau berita sedih sahabat, biarlah dia sendiri memberitahu rakan lain walaupun kita sudah mengetahui. Ini tanda kita menghormatinya. Jangan terlalu busy body dengan cerita kehidupan sahabat kita tanpa memikir kesannya kepada sahabat kita.
9. Menghormati hak & kehidupan peribadi sahabat. beri peluang sahabat bersendiri. Jikalau terlalu berdampingan, mungkin menjemukan & kita hanya menyekat perhubungan dgn insan lain.
10. Jika salah seorg marah, beri peluang dia melepaskan amarah di hati.Jgn dibalas, berdiam & tunggu hingga dia reda & sejuk. Pasti hubungan akan kembali spt biasa. Manusia harus menerima hakikat setiap org ada lautan hati yg pasang surut.
11. Sewaktu sahabat sedang marah, elok mendiamkan diri. Jikalau dia mengomel, dengar & angguk. Itu lebih baik dpd membuat komen. Ia boleh memburukkan keadaan.
12. Jangan memburukkan sahabat di hadapan orang lain dan membanggakan diri dengan mengadakan cerita i.e. kekayaan, kecantikkan dan sebagainya. Bangga diri tidak membawa kita ke mana-mana sebaliknya bersyukur dgn apa yang dikurnia oleh Allah s.w.t
Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda:
"Sesungguhnya hati manusia akan berkarat sebagaimana besi yang dikaratkan oleh air." Bila seorang bertanya, "Apakah caranya untuk menjadikan hati-hati ini bersih kembali?" Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda, "Selalulah ingat mati dan membaca Al Quran."
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15th June 2008
My aunt Eza Azlina had her wedding on this day. I went to Dewan Muhibbah at around 11, and my mum ordered me to be the one who gives the ‘campur’ which is I don’t know what was inside the ‘campur’ because I didn’t take one. Overall, it was fun, lots of hot guys, I mean cute babies. =p
I had fun with all of my cousins it’s a pity I didn’t took pics of them, because I was distracted by the ‘campur’-giving. Anyways, I will repay it by taking lots of pics during my other aunt’s wedding, due 2 weeks from now.
At the ambil-ambilan ceremony was fun though, with an exception of some amah took my seat when I went to take some food and she even smiled at me innocently like nothing happens. Darn you, amah. But it was fun, the wedding cake was delicious. Well, it was just chocolate. So I hangout with my uncles and this aunt who has an exceptionally cute and shy but snobby daughter. Her name is Aza Syazwani and she’s the snobbiest kid of all, why you ask, because she’s so choosy. I finally breakdown her snobbiness by inviting her to play on the stairs. She likes to play with the stairs, and it tires me after the 5th time we go up. Huh. Then there was a karaoke session, well, what do you expect from a wedding ceremony? So when my grand-uncle sings this song, Che Mek Molek by Datu Daud M. Kilau, then my cousin Wafiy or was it Daniel? He’s about 3 years old, and that is his favourite song and he dances at every chorus, everyone there was giving him a standing ovation. Mari kita berjoget! Haha. So after that the karaoke goes on, and one of my uncle, Azizan actually ask us to pay his performance for singing 3 songs for $15, I would be willing to pay half the price or maybe quarter of the price because his voice is so Au. Haha!
Anyways the main highlight of the events was there are 3 sets of twin present. 2 of the twin sets are sibling and the other set are just distant cousins. The very thing is that all these 3 sets of twins are identical twins. None the less, I noticed that the sibling of the 2 sets of twins, the only one without a twin kept staring at me obviously, I was like wth? Why does she have to keep staring at me? She’s a weirdo.
16th June 2008
Nothing much happen today, just doing some chores. Well, I miss my Nur Asnawi so much, huh. I can’t live without him; really, this holiday is killing me right now. I need schools, I need lessons. I miss my Nur Asnawi so much. I need to busy people’s ears by telling them how I miss my Nur Asnawi so much. Come on! I miss him so much. Really.
I’ve read a book titled ‘Forbidden Love’ by Norma Khouri, it is an exceptionally well-written story but at the same time, it is a truly sad story. Norma Khouri’s best friend Dalia was killed by her own brothers and father so as to cleanse their family from disrespect. This, people, is called honour crimes. It happens mostly in Arabic country, it doesn’t meant that the women who are killed are Muslims, there are also Christian women killed to upright the honour of the family. This honour killings derived from the ‘desert laws’ which is a law of the nomadic Bedouin people where the men in the family will kill the woman in the family if the woman has done an immoral behaviour, victim of vivacious rumours or even suspected of immoral behaviour. But 90% of the honour killing is due to suspected of immoral behaviour but in fact these women are innocent. In one country, an estimated toll of 6000 women was killed. In one of these cases, a married and pregnant woman was shot because the family suspected that their daughter had premarital sex, and this woman was pregnant for 2 months and got married 4 months before she was pregnant. So sad isn’t it? But what’s even sadder is that the men were named heroes for clearing their honour, they were jailed in duration from 3 months to 2 years. Innalillah to the innocent women.
17th June 2008
Nothing much happens, done my chores. Cooked for the lunch. And I don’t think I have any issues to bring up here, haha. Give me time. Anyways, tomorrow is the Bakti Dewa School reunion batch Primary 6 of 2002 at The Mall’s Mr. Pizza. I don’t want to go there because an ex-best friend might be there and also, Nur Asnawi does not want me to come to any gatherings that don’t include him or my family and my parents don’t give consent too. Well, I guess tomorrow is the “Muleh Tiga Hari” event for my aunt and her new husband so they might be busy helping for the preparations too.
Well, during the night, my parents brought me to the tailor shop to measure my body so as to tell the dress-maker to make fashionable dresses with 3 different styles for those 3 kains. Then to Nini Amit’s house to some of the wedding invitations to them, after that we went to SKH to buy some chocolates. Then as it is near to IGS College of Kiulap so went to the nearest hotel there and my parents asked for a hotel tour and decided to have the Superior room and book this place for the 28th and 29th. Yeay me! Haha.
18th June 2008
Well, I’m the lunch chef. Call me lunch chef, ok wth. But anyways, the morning and afternoon was a bore. Today was supposed to be the BDS Reunion Buffet, but I didn’t come, yeay me. =)
I mean wouldn’t that be a bore? So what if we are reunited? More than half of the batch is in PTE. BTW, I checked the GCE O level results again, and guess what? I saw Adi Rani’s result which is a bit disappointing and I’m not going to tell it here, because I’m not a bloody paparazzi, I just come across it just like when someone called me a ‘stalker’. But respect Adi Rani, he made a song about his daughter and the song is fabulous, how touching and sweet was that? Duh, haha! So today’s the Muleh Tiga Hari event and mind you, this is the first time I’ve been to a Muleh Tiga Hari event. Instead of those fancy stuffs of those things that you usually see during berian or weddings’ presents, they give your basic kitchen utility and food like curry powder, onions, flour, fry pan, microwave, cooking pan, sauce pan and all those pan. Then after all those mooch things going on, and then the close relatives’ increases the volume of the karaoke and joget! Haha, man, O’ol tried to pull me to Joget and I don’t want to so I ran away instinctively when he tries to grab my hand. Haha, I may not be that athletic, but I still have great reflexes when people ask me to dance, or in this case, tries to grab me to dance, nice try uncle. =P
After all that, I went to Grandma’s house in Madang, then stay there till 1.30 am to go through last minute wedding details and that entire sort. Now I arrived home and it’s 2.10 am, all I can say is that I’m bushed. Good night, *yawns*.
19th June 2008
As usual, I do the lunch menu but for exceptions for the Ayamku Boneless Chicken. Oh wow, these grease tasted so good. I actually gain weight, from 46.5 (oh yes, I actually lost before I gain) to 47.6kg. 1.1kg? Not bad, haha and yes, I count my weight accurately, but in the times I lost my weight I never seen my butt decreased in size, I wonder.
So on the evening, we went to Madang to start the Malam Jaga-jaga thing but is cut short earlier than it supposed to, because not many came tonight. I went upstairs to the bride’s room to watch the “Dead Or Alive” movie, it was witty, action-y and fun but I didn’t watch the ending because it was time to go home. Man, the movie was fun. I like the three diva heroines, they rocked. It was funny the curly-haired girl was hinted as a lesbian by her father, haha. I miss my Nur Asnawi so much, why are you the only who keeps popping in my head? Oh duh, he’s my boyfriend/soul mate/husband/kambing. =)
That’s it. Ciao.
20th June 2008
I am so swamped today; I just found out that I have lots of things to do for my aunt’s wedding. I’m the bridesmaid as I am the closest niece of her. Anyways, I done the usual; being the lunch chef (don’t you ever realised that I never were the dinner chef? Well, they don’t really like to eat during the evenings and I don’t know why) and also busy watching TV, haha. So on the evening, I went to this wedding specialised Seri LaiLai shop for the berian things and the decoration stuff. I’ll be so swamped this week and I haven’t started on my homework. Huh, I need my Nur Asnawi. He’s the hottest guy on earth and no one can even measure up to him, not even Dennis Oh. Hello, he’s hot.
21st June 2008
I cooked the rice and my dad bought Ayamku Ordinary Chicken, but hey it’s still fats, and fats are healthy (for the anorexic and underweight people), oh wow, I really love those fatty crisp chicken. So we went to the tailor shop to make Baju Cara Melayu for my siblings, then we went to our tailor shop because one of my uncle’s wife wants to order Baju Kurung for the next Hari Raya. Her baby is so cute, her name is Amiratul Nadia, I think. She’s cute, but she’s loud for a 4 month old baby. I like children, but Nur Asnawi, I want 2 kids, if God gives us twin, well that’s it no comma. =P
So after that, we went to Madang for Malam Jaga-jaga again, this time it’s more lively as more people came, we had those Lotto Bingo thing playing and guess what, I won a box of Sunkist party size mango juice and inside there’s ten juice box, no way am I going to give some to my siblings, I’ll just hide it safely in my room, haha. I help my bride-to-be aunt with wrapping ‘campur’ for the Bedak-bedak thing and put $2 each in 100 envelopes. You are going to pay me more, because I’m going to do a lot of things for you. Huh, good night.
22nd June 2008
Today us a big day, it’s the Bedak-bedak Mandi and Akad Nikah event. I wore my black and orange baju kurung with lots of beady blings to show off. Haha. Anyways, I was in charge of the needs of the bride-to-be and became the bedak wiper because the ‘pengangun’ was busy chatting up with her old friends, bla bla bla. The photographer took pictures of me with the bride-to-be and I hope he’ll pay me because I’ll be the cutest one in the pictures, haha. So then the bride went upstairs, and then after half an hour passed, the groom and his relatives came for the Berian and Akad Nikah thing. I hate those guys, who eyed me up, give me a break! One of you is actually shorter than me, duh. So now my aunts is officially married and hope you two will be together forever, as they say till death do us part. After all the chaos is done, we again had photo sessions with the two newlyweds. So photographer, that’s $500,000 a picture if my face is in it.
So as time goes by, I packed some food, I ask the bride whether I can borrow her clothes because I didn’t bring any extras to take me up till the evening’s Malam Berjaga-jaga. So I went to take a hot and relaxed shower, freshen up my self and went downstairs to prepare for the lotto bingo game. I won a Hello Panda family pack, yeay me. =) Haha, after that I went inside with my winning and play some game in the PC, Word Twister. Its fun and I got up to level 35, how cool is that? So as I play I was getting tired and I kept squinting my eyes because I was dizzy and so sleepy. So when my sister said she wants to play the PC, I just get up from the chair and went ahead on the carpeted floor and collapse, but my mum woke me up when it’s time to go. Now it’s 3.14 am, I need to sleep! Teacher Aishah, if you read this, I didn’t came for the extra class because I had an extreme exhaustion, well, from morning to night I’ve been busy with the preparations and whatnot, so forgive me. =)
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It’s been a long time I haven’t blog, and yes I am sorry for the delay, I was so busy with stuffs and I don’t know where to start! Hah, FYI, it’s been a month and 13 days Nur Asnawi and I has been together, wish for us together forever. Anyways, what’s new about me? I guess it’s nothing, my aunt got married and I have to go to her house at nights for the Jaga-jaga malam. Well this aunt of mine is my mother’s cousin, so it’s not really a big deal for me. I can’t wait for my aunt who is my mother’s sibling to get married, because I would get a few new outfits for every event of her wedding.
To Nur Asnawi, I love you so much. That’s a truth, and this time, I am serious about you, I’ll never be disloyal to you. To you haters out there, you can’t break a relationship when the couple doesn’t even give a damn about you. So back off.
BTW, holidays are here, boo-ring! I’m sorry for that, I am a nerd. I don’t have anything to do except for finishing my homework. There is lots of it. But who would care about my misery? NO ONE, because they LIKE holidays, but I don’t with an exception of when I had my big exams because I would be so mentally exhausted that I need a real break.
To all Muslims out there, I come across with one information that somehow out of those shopping spree we had, we accidentally and not knowingly helped the Israelis to buy weaponry and ammunition for the war against the Palestinians. Why? You would say. I don’t know if I can post it in here, but anyhow. McDonald’s, Coca Cola, Cireli (don’t know the spelling), Body Shop, Starbucks to name a few of the brands that endorses the killing of the Palestinians, and you ask Why? Because an amount of their profits are to pay for the bills of the Israelis’ weaponry bills. Starbucks actually endorses it openly.
Maybe you guys think that this is not such a big deal, but this is especially to the Muslims out there, Palestinians are our Islamic brothers and sisters. They suffer too much violence and we need to help them by not paying to kill them. So don’t buy the named brands, because if we do, we are helping the Israelis to kill our Islamic brothers and sisters. We pay for it, we consume it, but we didn’t know that all this time we killed our own brothers and sisters of the same religion.
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saturday - they were queuing to enter the sunway lagoon punya pools. like what eh. no lives ka? HAHAH. kidding. yehh. xp .....NEXT!
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